{"id":55673,"date":"2026-09-19T15:51:05","date_gmt":"2026-09-19T15:51:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/cp.snarskis.lt\/index.php\/2026\/09\/19\/netekusi-dvieju-kudikiu-ilze-tigule-prabilo-po-ligonines-telefonas-tylejo-o-vienatve-slege\/"},"modified":"2026-09-19T15:51:05","modified_gmt":"2026-09-19T15:51:05","slug":"netekusi-dvieju-kudikiu-ilze-tigule-prabilo-po-ligonines-telefonas-tylejo-o-vienatve-slege","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cp.snarskis.lt\/index.php\/2026\/09\/19\/netekusi-dvieju-kudikiu-ilze-tigule-prabilo-po-ligonines-telefonas-tylejo-o-vienatve-slege\/","title":{"rendered":"Netekusi dviej\u0173 k\u016bdiki\u0173 Ilze Tigule prabilo: po ligonin\u0117s telefonas tyl\u0117jo, o vienatv\u0117 sl\u0117g\u0117"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Latvijoje \u017einoma mirties d\u016bla Ilze Tigule televizijos laidoje atvirai papasakojo apie itin skaud\u017ei\u0105 patirt\u012f \u2013 prie\u0161 daugiau nei de\u0161imtmet\u012f ji n\u0117\u0161tumo metu neteko dviej\u0173 savo k\u016bdiki\u0173. Pasak moters, gedulas u\u017eklupo net ir tuo metu, kai \u0161alia buvo artimieji, ta\u010diau emocinis vieni\u0161umas tik stipr\u0117jo.<\/p>\n<p>Ilze Tigule teig\u0117, kad po netekties labiausiai pritrenk\u0117 aplinkini\u0173 tyla. Ji lygino situacij\u0105 su \u012fprastu scenarijumi, kai gimus k\u016bdikiui \u017emon\u0117s skambina, sveikina, si\u016blo pagalb\u0105, ta\u010diau gr\u012f\u017eus namo po k\u016bdikio praradimo telefonas da\u017enai nebeskamba.<\/p>\n<p>\u201eKai gr\u012f\u017eau i\u0161 ligonin\u0117s po k\u016bdikio netekties, telefonas tyl\u0117jo, niekas neskambino. Ne tod\u0117l, kad \u017emon\u0117ms ner\u016bp\u0117t\u0173, o tod\u0117l, kad jie ne\u017eino, k\u0105 tokiu metu pasakyti\u201c, \u2013 sak\u0117 Ilze Tigule.<\/p>\n<p>Laidoje ji pabr\u0117\u017e\u0117, kad tokiose situacijose visuomen\u0117 neretai pasimeta: vieni bijo \u012f\u017eeisti, kiti vengia \u201etrukdyti\u201c, dar kiti mano, kad tyl\u0117jimas yra pagarba. Vis d\u0117lto gedintiems t\u0117vams tai gali virsti dar vienu skausmo sluoksniu, nes praradimas palie\u010dia ne tik \u0161eim\u0105, bet ir socialin\u012f ry\u0161\u012f su aplinka.<\/p>\n<p>Anot Ilze Tigule, mirties d\u016bl\u0173 darbe ir mokymuose daug d\u0117mesio skiriama b\u016btent tam, kaip bendrauti su \u017emogumi netekties akivaizdoje. Ji ai\u0161kino, kad svarbiausia da\u017enai b\u016bna ne tobuli \u017eod\u017eiai, o paprastas buvimas \u0161alia ir ai\u0161ki \u017einia, kad \u017emogus n\u0117ra paliktas vienas.<\/p>\n<p>Ji taip pat atkreip\u0117 d\u0117mes\u012f, kad po perinatalini\u0173 netek\u010di\u0173 t\u0117vai gali susidurti ir su ilgalaik\u0117mis psichologin\u0117mis pasekm\u0117mis, o visuomen\u0117s reakcija neretai nulemia, ar jie ry\u0161is ie\u0161koti pagalbos. Tod\u0117l, pasak jos, jautrus bendravimas ir elementari parama gali tapti lemiamu \u017eingsniu, padedan\u010diu i\u0161b\u016bti gedul\u0105.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mirties d\u016bla Ilze Tigule atvirai papasakojo apie dviej\u0173 k\u016bdiki\u0173 netekt\u012f ir tai, kod\u0117l po gr\u012f\u017eimo i\u0161 ligonin\u0117s j\u0105 pasitiko skaudi tyla.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":0,"featured_media":55674,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[48],"tags":[29170,36768,538,42941,42940,435],"miestas":[],"class_list":["post-55673","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-laisvalaikis","tag-gedulas","tag-ilze-tigule","tag-latvija","tag-mirties-dula","tag-perinataline-netektis","tag-psichologine-pagalba"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cp.snarskis.lt\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55673","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cp.snarskis.lt\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cp.snarskis.lt\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cp.snarskis.lt\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=55673"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/cp.snarskis.lt\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55673\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cp.snarskis.lt\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/55674"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cp.snarskis.lt\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=55673"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cp.snarskis.lt\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=55673"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cp.snarskis.lt\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=55673"},{"taxonomy":"miestas","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cp.snarskis.lt\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/miestas?post=55673"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}